Sudanese refugee foster families offer hope and a home to lone children
Sudanese refugee foster families offer hope and a home to lone children
But when a group of neighbours stopped by the same tree to catch their breath, Abdoulaye’s priorities quickly changed. In the chaos of escaping from the militia that raided their village, the neighbours had found two small children whose mother had been killed in the attack and whose father had disappeared.
The neighbours left the children with Abdoulaye and his wife Hawaye and continued their own frantic flight for the relative safety of the Chadian border.
There was no question of leaving the terrified children behind, Abdoulaye recalled in his new shelter in Arkoum refugee camp, eastern Chad. He watched as the two young children – 5-year-old Saleh and his little sister Maimouna, 3 – played beneath the canopy of their shared home.
“I decided that if we die, we will die together, I’m not abandoning the children,” he said of the hot summer afternoon in 2023 when he fled his home and found the children.
Soon after the conflict in Sudan ignited in April 2023, Abdoulaye and Hawaye had sent their own three children to Chad for safety, where they were living with family members. As he limped into the camp with his wife and the two rescued children, Abdoulaye discovered that news had spread that he had died in the attack on their village.
Welcomed to the family
“Everyone thought that I was dead,” he said. “They were so happy to see me alive.”
Abdoulaye and Hawaye were reunited with their children who welcomed their two new siblings with open arms.
Since then, the search for Saleh and Maimouna’s father has continued without success. Abdoulaye fears he may have been killed in the fighting.
He and Hawaye are now part of a fledgling foster family programme run by the Jesuit Refugee Service with support from UNHCR, the UN Refugee Agency. There are eight other refugee foster families in the sprawling Arkoum camp, and a total of 55 in the five refugee settlements in the wider Hadjer Hadid area of eastern Chad, according to Nathalie Etienne, a Community-Based Protection Officer at UNHCR.
“These families have endured unimaginable violence and hardship as they fled their native Darfur region of Sudan,” she said. “And yet they have opened their homes and their hearts to care for children who have lost their parents.”
"If we die, we will die together."
“Civilians are paying the highest price in this violent conflict,” said Hyde, who visited the country last week. “A staggering 71 per cent of refugees arriving in Chad report surviving human rights violations in Sudan while fleeing. The levels of trauma are devastating, with families in shock after fleeing the horrors, still living in fear despite being in relative safety.”
Abdoulaye said he hopes that in Chad all the children he cares for will receive an education and opportunities that he never had in Darfur. “I didn’t have the chance to study. My family had a lot of animals, so I grew up raising cattle,” he said. “I want all of my children to go to school and build a better life for themselves.”
But that is a dream for the future. Today he is more concerned about where their next meal will come from, especially now that Saleh and Maimouna are part of the expanded family.
“The children will live with us as long as I’m alive; what we eat they will eat,” Abdoulaye said. “I nearly died but Allah saved my life, I beg him to save these children too and help them succeed.”