The inspiring transformation of Gbetibwa Godé thousands of kilometers away from her homeland
The inspiring transformation of Gbetibwa Godé thousands of kilometers away from her homeland
Gbetibwa Godé fled the devastating conflict in the Central African Republic (CAR) with her children and has found refuge in Côte d'Ivoire since January 20, 2014. This courageous 45-year-old woman is filled with hope for the future.
"Being alone with my four young children, two boys and two girls, life was far from easy when I arrived in Côte d'Ivoire. By the grace of God, I met people who extended a helping hand," recalls Godé, moved.
Godé chose to seek refuge in Côte d'Ivoire because she used to accompany her mother, a trader, in her business activities there. Her mother joined her as the war in CAR escalated.
"My mother and I became refugees and making ends meet was difficult. So, we did what we knew best: trade, an activity we practiced in our home country. With the help of the Urban Self-Promotion Support Association (ASAPSU), we started our own business. Unfortunately, in 2018, my mother passed away here in Côte d'Ivoire," she says with a voice filled with sadness.
About five years after fleeing CAR, Godé managed to open her own shop at the Koumassi market in Abidjan. "I went through many difficulties. In 2019, when the mayor decided to rebuild the market, I struggled to sell my goods. However, I managed to secure a loan and obtain a shop in the new market where I currently sell clothing and shoes," she explains.
"It was a challenge to integrate, but thanks to good relationships with others, I eventually succeeded. Even as a refugee, I never faced administrative issues in setting up my business. I have never experienced discrimination because of my status. I am surrounded by Ivorian traders, and I feel well-integrated. I feel at home, away from home," she proudly states.
Godé has no intention of returning to CAR anytime soon. "My strength lies in my children. Even when I'm sick, I find motivation by thinking of my children because I fight for them. The days can be tough at the market, but I draw courage from the idea that I need to feed and educate my children, the eldest being 20 years old, the next 19, the third 17, and the youngest 10. They are all attending school," she confides, highlighting that the children receive support from UNHCR for their education.
"Raising children alone is not easy. Nowadays, children are exposed to many dangers such as drugs and debauchery, which is why parents must be very vigilant," she emphasizes with wisdom.
Despite the challenges, including a highly competitive business environment, Godé, who seeks assistance to grow her business, is extremely optimistic about the future.
"To all those who, like me, were forced to leave their country, I want to say that even starting from nothing, you can rise again. I am living proof. This country welcomed us unconditionally. We are grateful to God and deeply grateful to our Ivorian brothers and sisters. I hope to see my children grow up fulfilled, become professionals, and start families in peace. I also hope to receive help to expand my business," she concludes with a smile.